Prejudices is a common diesease in the society. No matter the education, but every one, everyone is filled with their own prejudices. You are white, you are black. The gossip mongers do not stop. Strange it is, that we all wear cloths to hide our nudity. We all chase labels to define our modernity. However, when it comes to someone else, we all stand like vultures to garb them off. Not differentiating between human and onion, we try to peel them off layer by layer. Little do we realize, that we do not see things as they are. We see things, as "we" are.
Our castellated opinion dwells in ivort towers, and we brutually let them lead our mind, heart and conscience.
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I have written it as not just as a response to Magpie's Picture Prompt or for three word Wednesday. It also has bearings to my expereinces and thoughts wherein I have seen people indulging in hateful activities to put someone down and hide their own nudity behind other's mutiliated garb. You may marvel at the very ease people use to judge others and pull them down. It is simple, simpler than problem solving. However, it is unyielding. We all are nude behind our garbs.
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Life is made of moments- high and low. When the high moments give us the joy to live, why do we allow low moments to take that joy away? Our lives will have its own share of disappointments and adversities. When adversity strikes, do not say “Why Me” but say “Try me” like I said years ago.
I am sorry if you think I am unfair using a personal experience but my intention is sole to encourage the perpetually. It is my humble attempt to educate people and tell them, how our strength, planning and perseverance are only tested when we face disappointment and adversity. And how, we should not mull about the spilled milk but strive to overcome them, step by step. And if, a young, timid, shy girl like me from a small town can do this, what stops you?
Let this anecdote from Ishita [name changed] inspire you and people around.
#KhudKoKarBuland and make all the difference
Ishita was a young, happy go lucky daughter of Khurana household. She loved adventure sports and dancing. There was a strong adventure streak beneath her shy appearance. She loved all things adventures including cycling over steep terrains, dancing like no one is watching, playing in rains, swimming and more. She was a restless girl who refused to sit still for minutes.
She was on her way to achieving long awaited merits in sports when she found herself lying hopelessly on a hospital bed learning about a fatal accident that took away her limb[s].
She had seen numerous Hindi movies where protagonists in similar situation wake up and cry. She did not want to be a stereotyped. She rather opened her eyes and asked her doctors if she will be able to walk ever again. Together they created a step-by-step plan to achieve this goal. Every milestone, when reached, brought its own reward.
It was difficult but with great help from her parents, she stood back on her feet. She focussed on her education and meritocracy. Her adversities did not stopped post the accident but every day was and still posed a new challenge to her.
Apparently, adversities made her stronger. Today Ishita is highly educated, quite an independent [physically and financially] woman who is living life on her own. Her “raring to go” attitude and her zest to be self-reliant, bailed her on her own merits.
It is not that handicap did not limit her life. They did and often in many unexplainable ways. Nevertheless, she did not let prejudices colour her soul but became a living embodiment of courage and self-respect.
Well, Ishita does not call her heroic material. She rather believes that it is a way of life. Life never claims to be easy but does allow you to sail through.
So never forget to- Pray, Persevere and Plan your life.
Moral of the Story- #KhudKoKarBuland and Finance Your Dreams
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Smell Those Flowers
February 24, 2016
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Look around, the world is beautiful.
hold that step and tread not.
take a moment.
lean below and smell some flowers.
There is beauty
in every form
that God has created.
Cherish that beauty and splendor.
Add to the nature,
and not plunder.
The world is beautiful,
a pretty garden of afflorse
of beautiful lillies, daisies
and white roses.
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Life ceases to move when are we are too opinionated, too entangled in our own little perception, judgement. Are we a victim of second-hand thinking? Or do we allow a room for empathy? Often we judge a book by the cover, a wine by its bottle. In the bargain, we forget about our capability to imbibe facts beyond vision, beyond our imagination. Like this picture post, we look at an object and we decipher what we could think of it. It is a perspective and it can be interesting. Beauty is when we leave it at that, without making it a universal rule or concluding.
I was invited to attend the music launch of
upcoming film Jugni. By the time, I could clear the confusion of right PVR
venue and could reach the one behind Infinity Mall, Andheri. The launch event
was over and the multiplex was agog about ongoing screening of masala pot-boiler
by Rohit Shetty.
The PR handed me the music CD of the film to hear
at leisure. I dismissed the album as “just another” song and music routine only
to search for it furtively after watching the movie screening after few days.
Jugni is a simple, soft movie made by Shefali
Bhushan in the backdrop of a village in Punjab and Mumbai. The film is about a young
musician Vibhavari [Sugandha Garg] who wants to make big in music industry,
lands up in a small, sleepy town of Punjab, searching a folk singer Bibi
Swaroop [Sadhna singh].
Vibhavari AKA Vibs is a smart, no string
attached, urban musician who ends up meeting Mastana, Bibi Swaroop’s son and
develops a deep friendship with him. Mastana, very well played by Siddhant Behl
is a flamboyant, young, dhinchaak singer who harness bollywood dreams of making
it big. He is a happy go lucky, talented singer who sees a hope in Vibs and
offers her all required support in her search of that one tune which will sail
her setting career in right direction.
Performances: The cast is fresh and
apt. Sugandha Garg does a good job as Vibhavari, a focussed, matured, practical
and non-judgemental musician but still unwary of her “Jaane tu ya Jaane na” ways.
Sadhana Singh as Biwi swaroop looked beautiful as always but went loud in many
scenes unlike the character she looked. Samir Sharma looked tired but did his
bit well. The star of the show was actor Siddhant Bahl who lived Mastana to the
core and looked completely the part/character he played. So much that when we met
him after the film, he looked nothing like the character he played and that is
the beauty of it.
The Film- The first half of the film is based in
Punjab, in a rustic background that has done to perfection. The choice of
location and cinematography is brilliant. The director Shefali Bhushan did a good job in terms of paying
attention to details like using those steel tea cups to traditional quilt and other
props. What she lacked was in developing the core characters especially for
Sugandha’s so as to make story progress in right direction.
There is one scene in the film where Mastana’s
and Vibs hands accidentally meet each other at train but separates immediately
without any foofraw was beautiful and fresh. Another scene that we loved was-the
bus scene. Watch out for the character “Jeeta Jazbaati” too.
While the first part is essentially free
spirited, musical and picturesque, the second half gets intense, sifting in to
contrast of two worlds with a congruency in between.
Verdict: Jugni, is essentially a carefree firefly who finds herself a suitable place to illuminate. Whether the movie lived with it or not, you have to decide only post watching it. We loved the freshness of the film and the music took us in trance. The Sufi tracks will leave you mesmerized too and
you will hum Bulle Shah as am humming-
“hat mujhe apni tor manawan de
Hat mullah mein rok na mainu apni tod nibhavan
de, apmi tod nibhavan ke ghar kanjra ke jaawan de”
Do not miss: Dugg Duggi Dugg and other songs. Clinton Cerejo is a musician to watch out for.
Music Rating: 5/5
Film Rating: 3.5/5
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Outside my digital fortress
I see
blurred images,
of buildings, structures
and human being.
the dim landscape
or is it the fog
the blear colors
All blue, grey, cold
Outside my digital fortress
I hear,
that life has moved,
many seasons has turned
past of me.
Outside my digital fortress
I need to go.
Step out
from my nightmare.
explore,
pulsate
breath in and live,
before it fades away,
the life that encompasses me.
Do we all carry such an obscure image of things outside our digital fortress? Think about it
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Other Prompt: Nightmare.
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